I'm a woman in case that matters. I like that it came in black and was also a little bit larger than others. It does seem to stay in place better. i wish it could be shorter but its a good length the way it is. I will say it can become a bit heavy after wearing it for a long time. But I'm a woman, the necklace technically isn't made for me. I'm not sure if it will tolerate showers, pool, sleeping, etc. Because I've been taking it off. If it will then thats awesome. If it won't, thats gonna suck but understandable. Overall, I would recommend it. I actually really like it.