Well, I can't say what you like but what I was looking for in the pillow was missing 2 parts. First part the measurement for the higher side was too too high for me, because it was on too too much of an incline, well if you wanted to watch tv in bed all night I suppose that would be fine, the body was made to stretch out so you can relax all of your muscles at one time, and I can't sleep all night that way, unless for some medical reason you have to, then the Second part it really was too too firm, unless you like too too firm, I like firm but not too too firm. I'll tell you a secret I didn't throw it away or send it back, I kept it because it had some possibilities that I could work with so I did a little "surgery" on it, I sew a little bit, and I know how to alter things to fit only me and now I can sleep on it comfortably. I don't recommend you go through all this but do what fits your sleeping pattern.