At first I thought there was no setting for the lights to not blink, etc, but then luckily used the remote, and once it was set, I could use the other on/off gadget. I LOVE THESE LIGHTS!!! Even though my tree is not very tall, I like that I can still use these by either hiding the excess string tucked inside the tree, or just drape the strings around like I would with normal lights. Heck, I an do so much with these separate stringed lights, that one year I can do this, or do that. lol I am defiinetely very happy I got these types of lights, and even happier that I figured it out before sending it back. And yes, the remote is simple, I just didn't use that first. The other button (separate gadget) is then used instead of the remote to turn on/off using last setting you used on the remote. These lights is also something you could use by hanging on a hook, and then draping the strings.... just so many options. Definitely, for me, a good buy!